I am a school nurse and have a second grader who has started banging his head on the concrete walls, table, and other surfaces enough to leave red marks. We are wondering what he could possibly be doing to himself over the long term. He is emotionally disturbed and autistic. Should he be checked for possible traumatic brain injury? How can we help him?
There is no easy answer to your question. First, I would have him seen by his pediatrician for a thorough check-up and review his medical history to see if has had any previous falls or concussions. The next step would be to try to figure out what has precipitated this new head banging behavior. Typically developing children usually do not intentionally bang their heads hard enough to cause injury — but it's an effective behavior to get an adult's attention. For this child though, we can’t count on his ability to regulate himself even when a significant level of pain is involved.
The first priority is to keep him safe. That means not allowing him to hurt himself. A thorough assessment of his behavior should lead to a plan to reduce the head banging. In the meantime, he may need other interventions that might include protective headgear or medication. If a neuropsychologist or a behavioral psychologist is not involved in his care, you might consider a referral to help you figure out how best to manage this difficult and concerning situation.
About the author: Gerard Gioia, PhD
Gerard Gioia, PhD is a pediatric neuropsychologist and the chief of the Division of Pediatric Neuropsychology at Children's National Medical Center. He is an associate professor of Pediatrics and Psychiatry at the George Washington University School of Medicine.
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Anonymous replied on Permalink
My 2 1/2 year old grandson hits his head hard on the floor when he doesn't get his way. This happens 4 to 6 times a day. Should I take him to his pediatrician ??
Anonymous replied on Permalink
I'm desperate for some insight.
My daughter, as a toddler, banged her head regularly and throughout the day. She did it hard and we tried to stop her, but 2 pediatricians assured us she wouldn't be able to do it hard enough to cause injury and to allow it to some extent.
Additionally, when as a 4-5 yo she started sneaking her albuterol inhaler, going off and taking many hits. I really don't know how many times, but probably as many as 10 before I caught her and secured the inhaler.
Lastly, she was put on Concerta for ADHD for 3-4 years during adolescence.
Now she's a junior in college and has ALWAYS struggled with mood, outbursts, learning difficulties and attention. I worry headbanging, albuterol abuse, and Concerta have caused her brain injury. I've tried researching online about all three issues and haven't come up with much. If you could tell me what you know about any of this I would greatly appreciate it.
I've let her down as her mom, the person who should've protected her, and I'm feeling devastated that all this may have impacted her permanently. I feel I should not have blindly trusted her doctors about the banging and safety of Concerta (which is now known not to be so safe after all). Thank you for any insight you might provide.
Anonymous replied on Permalink
My brother did this as a child at night and I think a lot of his mental health problems stem from this .. He has outbursts, mood disorder similar to bipolar , flys off the handle in a second and is unpredictable.. And has total disdain for my parents whom he lives with .. mainly my father and makes disparaging remarks to my father in particular .. they are in their 70’s and he has never left .. he has developed severe OCD and can’t handle if anyone touches any of his stuff or if the cat gets near it .. it is becoming unbearable to deal with .. I am at a loss to try to help change this situation .. he has never lived on his own and now has cancer ... Any suggestions would be welcome
Anonymous replied on Permalink
Hi! I just happened by this site and saw your plea for help. I’m certainly not an expert in brain injury! But I do know one thing for certain...you were and are an excellent mother. You have always done the very best you could with the information you were given at the time, with your daughter’s needs at heart.
I am blessed to have a mother like you. Like you, she did not always make the correct decisions. I (like all children ever born) live with the results of my parents’ choices, both good and bad. However I know that every move they made was done from love and deep concern for my wellbeing, and so I blame them for nothing.
We all have to feel our way blindly through our lives, racking up successes and failures. In my opinion, the only guidepost we are given is love. If what we do and say is based on love, we can genuinely say that we did the best we could, and leave the rest to fate.
May God bless you and your daughter and give you peace. You Did The Best You Could.
Anonymous replied on Permalink
Hello. Not sure your comment really had much advice or relevance to the post itself, HOWEVER— I do want to say this : I completely feel the same way as your last paragraph. I have never ever in my life heard someone besides myself — ever say those exact words. As long as we can say and be sure we have loved wholeheartedly and as selflessly and honest as possible, we’ve done the best we can and the test is up to fate . God bless you and yours as well.
Heather replied on Permalink
I wonder if (as a child) did (lifelong damage) from head banging?? My behaviour was ignored yet I was told I would, hit my forehead so hard, it would leave large lumps. Hmmm
yankila replied on Permalink
Hello Doctor, my son is 12 years now but when he was around 2 years old had fallen in the bathroom hitting the back of his head on the bathroom tiles. He cried but acted normal. I am worried whether the accident will have an effect in future.
Mim replied on Permalink
Hello Dr Gioia I'm the mother of a 15 year old who hits himself in the head when he's stressed out. He does see a neurologist and takes Lexapro. How can I help my son stop this before he seriously injures himself......I'm afraid he will do this while I'm at work and I won't be there to step in
Ter replied on Permalink
What about a one year old that frequently bangs his head hard enough to leave bruises? At 2 he is exhibiting very low speaking ability and prefers signing to speaking sounds or words.
Debbie replied on Permalink
This is what my grandson is doing he is18 months old and bangs his head hard on the tile floor he leaves marks bruises and bumps on his forehead. We try to stop him..We are so worried about him.
Anonymous replied on Permalink
Recommend that the child have a genetic blood test done. Autism is just a label, not an etiology behind the behaviors. Multiple genetic syndromes result in self injurious behaviors including head banging.
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